Thursday, April 25, 2013

Don't Take Her Pinky

Hannah has had many sore throats since this past August.  The last one lasted over a week.  Once or twice she has had strep, but according to the pediatrician most were, "just viral."  She has missed several days of school due to sore throats.  She does NOT like to miss school.  Both of my girls have been in tears before for because they were too sick to go to school.  They just don't like to miss, so when one of them asks to stay home, I know they feel awful.

After waiting out the last sore throat for a couple of days, I got her in to see the doctor.  There are two pediatricians in this practice and a couple nurse practitioners.  I do not like seeing the nurse practitioner.  Fine.  The nurse actually does a throat culture to test for strep and the nurse practitioner can prescribe meds if needed, but beyond that, she is pointless.  That is always the chance we take when making a same day appointment.   This appointment we saw the nurse practitioner.  I was all geared up to ask a lot of questions when I was told, "It is just viral."  Of course, there was no strep and I was told it is just viral.  I asked how many times Hannah had had strep in the past calendar year.  She found two in the records, but admittedly told me their records weren't entirely accurate as they had switched computer systems.  However, twice sounded about right.  I asked if we should do further testing to make sure there wasn't something else going on.  I'm not a doctor, but I have always heard that the tonsils are a good warning system and chronic sore throats could be a warning sign for something more serious.  She just smiled and shook her head.

I left the pediatrician's office and called and ENT's office the next day.  They made an appointment for the following morning to evaluate her.  I told the ENT Hannah's history and explained that I understood the pediatrician had told me that Hannah had to have strep five to seven times in a year before getting a referral to the ENT.  However, I just wanted him to take a look and make sure we weren't missing something.  If he had said, "It is just viral" we would have gone on our merry little way.  He was wonderful.  He told me the practice of waiting for a child to get strep five to seven times in a year without taking action for chronic sore throats is basically old school.  He also said there are many other bacteria that can infect the tonsils that aren't strep and won't show up on a strep test.  I wanted to jump up and hug the man.  (Easy...I didn't.)  I had to fight back tears, too.  I hate when a doctor blows me off.  As a parent, you know when something just isn't right or normal and to be blown off makes me mad.  The ENT took one look at Hannah's throat and said, "Those tonsils need to come out." 



We had to be at the surgery center at 6:30 in the morning for her surgery that was scheduled at 7:30.  The nurse told me kids usually just wear their jammies.  Hannah took along this stuffed animal.

As the nurse was prepping Hannah for surgery, she asked Hannah why she was there.  Hannah said to have her tonsils removed.  The nurse looked at me and asked, "Adenoids, too?"  The ENT told me that with children Hannah's age the adenoids are usually removed at the same time as the tonsils.  The adenoids shrivel up by the time we are older teens and are useless anyway.  I hadn't mentioned that to PK, but it didn't really register as I knew that was a common practice.

When the nurse left the room, PK asked, "What else are they taking out?"  He looked at Hannah and said, "Are they taking your pinkie, too?"  Of course, she just giggled.


She is faking being asleep, but this is how they both felt.


Hannah was less than happy when the nurse told her to put on the hospital gown.  Luckily, this one had tigers which goes along with Hannah's jungle life theme.


She didn't want to sit on this bed and really wanted me to stop snapping pictures.


Then the nurse brought her a blanket that was fresh out of the warmer and she decided the bed was quite nice. 

The anesthesiologist and a nurse rolled her back for surgery.  I thought she might be scared at this point, but it didn't seem to phase her.  PK and I sat in the waiting room and did what you do in a waiting room...waited.  The doctor came out and told us everything went well.  He said her tonsils were a lot larger than we could see.  After little more waiting, the nurse came to get us to go back to the recovery area.  Hannah was crying a little, but wasn't fully awake from the anesthesia.  She kept trying to sit up and the nurse would raise the bed a little.  She was quite confused.  I was standing in one spot slightly bent over trying to comfort her when all of a sudden I felt light headed and had a wave of nausea.  I told PK, "I don't feel well."  The nurse heard and grabbed a chair.  Then I got sick.  I was embarrassed to say the least.  I am usually good in these situations.  I'm quite certain I had locked my knees in that one spot and I had a completely empty stomach. 

The nurse asked Hannah if she wanted a popsicle and her eyes got really big.  Once she was coherent the first thing she said was, "Kayla was right when she said it would smell like markers."  She was talking about the anesthesia.  I emailed Kayla's mom to let her know Hannah thought of her first. 



Once her pain level was down a bit which didn't take long, we headed home and got Hannah situated on the couch.  Kayla came by that afternoon and brought Hannah some popsicles and a stuffed animal.

 
Her teacher, Mrs. Anderson, came by the following day and brought her ice cream and a sketch pad and crayons.
 
By the end of the second day Hannah was tired of ice cream, popsicles and juice and really wanted something savory.  We started with plain broth and then she tried some noodles.  No problem.


Monday, April 8, 2013

Then There Was Hope

This is one of my favorite stories from the Haiti trip.  So many little things fell into place that the team knew God was at work.  I mentioned it briefly in my journaling, but I left it out of the previous posts because it played out over the course of the week and the end is yet to be written.

I feel each team member has a special moment or story that stands out from our time in Haiti and is best told by that team member.  We can all tell the stories, but when it is told by a certain team member there is a passion to it.  This story begins with Connie and I think she tells it with such excitement and joy, but I'll do my best.

On Sunday the team went to church in the village of Source a Phillipe.  We had previously been told we would be attending a harvest service in a neighboring village, but the night before we were told Bill would be preaching at Source a Phillipe.  Connie had been to the island  a couple times before and she was really interested in go to the harvest service.  The team from Virginia was going to the harvest service so Connie asked Bill if she could go along.

Early on Sunday morning Connie and Trevor went for a long hike.  Unknown to Connie, Bill had asked the other team leader if Connie could go along with them to the other village.  When Connie got back from her walk Bill told her she could go along.  She had twenty minutes to get ready.  She was hot and sweaty and wanted to shower.  She decided she would try her best to be ready to go on time.  If she made it, that would be great.  She decided on a wet wipe bath and made it out the door just in time.

An important fact to remember is that the beginning of this story happens without and interpreter.  It is all body language and God's love.

While Connie was sitting in the church waiting for the service to begin, a little Haitian girl sat down next to her.  She had a smaller child on her lap.  It is very common to see young children caring for younger children.  Connie motioned for the smallest child to sit on her lap so the older child wouldn't have to hold her the entire service.  The younger child went to Connie.  Connie said she and the older girl smiled at each other during the service and just made a connection.

After the service the team members were all given a bottle of Coke.  Connie really didn't want it, but she didn't want to offend anyone.  She stood with the group sipping her Coke and watched the little girl with the other children.  She wanted to go talk to the girl, but she felt like she couldn't walk over with the Coke in her hand to the child who didn't have anything and was probably hungry.

The children went in a building and came out with plates of food.  Because it was a harvest service it was a special day and there was a meal served at the church.  When Connie saw the kids had food, she felt more comfortable going over to them.  She talked to the little girl.  The little girl invited Connie to her house.  Remember this is all in separate languages.  Connie told the other team leader that she wanted to see the little girl's house.  The other team leader agreed and Connie went.

She met the little girl's mother and grandmother.  The mother didn't know Connie was a nurse, but she told Connie the little girl had something in her ear.  Connie looked and could see something.  She thought it might be a bug.  Connie somehow managed to explain to the mother that the clinic would be open in Source a Phillipe the next day and a doctor would be there.

On Monday, the little girl showed up at the clinic.  Rodney looked in her ear and found what Connie saw was a growth.  He told us a technical name for it, but I don't remember.  Through the interpreter he learned the growth had been there for about two years.  The mother had taken the child to see a doctor in Port au Prince and was told she needed surgery to remove the growth.  In the U.S. when a surgery is needed, a patient is told upfront how much will be covered by insurance and how much will be the patient's responsibility.  In Haiti, a patient is told surgery is needed at after the surgery the patient will be told how much it cost.  There is no room and board provided.  The patient must have someone to bring in meals and provide care.

When the surgeon told the little girl's mother she needed surgery, the mother knew she didn't have the funds and took the little girl home. 

The growth will continue to grow and will eventually work through the bone.  It may or may not be malignant.  Nothing can be know for sure without further diagnostic testing and removing the growth.  At the very least, this little girl will lose her hearing because what would be a simple outpatient surgery in the U.S., is beyond her reach in Haiti.

Trevor was in the clinic when all of this was going on and he was ready to hop on a plane and find the money for this surgery immediately.

As a team, we knew God had orchestrated this chance meeting.  There was no question that we needed a plan and would figure out a way to help this little girl.  We would go home and raise the money.  As we discussed the situation that evening during reflections, someone said we really needed a picture of the little girl.

On Monday morning, Trevor, Bill, Connie and our interpreter, Rodney, got up really early and walked the hour to the little girl's village.

They found out her name is Kenise Esperance and she is 10 years old.






When the group met Kenise to take her picture, they told her family we wanted a picture so we could pray for her.  Making promises to an individual is a big no-no.

On our way back to Petionville, we stopped at the hospital in Port au Prince.  Rodney and Bill went in to try to find out more about Kenise's previous visit.  Rodney said charts were stacked around and it was obvious that there were records, but little organization.  However, he was able to get the name and contact number of someone at the hospital.

When we got back to the guest house we shared the story with Sarah and as a team left almost $900 to get the ball rolling.  The whole thing will have to be coordinated by Pastor Jacki through the church.  If the administration at the hospital in Port au Prince thinks someone for the U.S. is footing the bill, the cost will most likely escalate.

We have just started to tell the story and without directly asking for donation, funds have started to come in. 

There is a sad side to the story. This was Bill, Rodney and Connie's third trip to Source a Phillipe. On their first trip they met a little girl named Love Theodore.





 Love had a large abscess on her neck.  Rodney drained it and Bill and Connie walked to her village a couple of times to check on her.  Her parents had died.  Bill and Connie fell in love with this little girl.  On their second visit to the island, they made sure to see Love.  They found out she had had to have the abscess drained again.  They had told us about her on our journey to Source a Phillipe and hoped to see her on this trip.

As it happens, Love is from the same village as Kenise.  After Bill and Connie got the information they needed about Kenise, they asked where Love Theodore was.  Sadly, she had passed away.

When Bill shared the story at church on the Sunday after we returned, he told the congregation about Kenise Esperance.  My friend and blog follower, Rosalyn (bloggy shout out!!), was sitting behind me.  When she heard, "Esperance," she gasped.  She leaned up and told me that Esperance means HOPE!!  Only God.

Bill has come up with the perfect way to honor Love and to help Kenise.  He has established a fund at our church called the Love Theodore Fund.  Contributions to this fund will allow our team to provide additional medical care to the children of La Gonave who need further medical care.  The first recipient will be Kenise.

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Haiti Day 10

Day 10
March 23, 2013

I am sitting in a plane on the runway in Miami waiting for maintenance to clear our plane for take off.

We left the guest house around 7:00 this morning.  When we got up there was a table set up with bags of coffee, peanut butter, vanilla and jelly for sale.  I bought a large bag of coffee for PK, some individual bags to give as gifts to my Sunday School class and two bottles of vanilla.

When we made it to the airport we had to split for two separate flights.  Dee, Connie, Rodney and I were on American.  Bill, Trevor and Claude were on Spirit.  Of course, there were porters trying to carry our bags before we even got out of the truck.  Connie was very assertive and calm.  She asked who the boss was, confirmed we would pay one dollar per bag and then allowed them to help us.  Once inside the building there was a dog sniffing our bags.  It alerted on Rodney's.  He has a blanket that fold into a pillow and hooks on his bag.  He had to unfold and the dog sniffed and sniffed.  The guard finally waved us through.

We made it through immigration and then had to go through security.  Again, Rodney was stopped.  he had a pair of blunt tipped scissors in his little black doctor bag.  He had to pull them out to show they really were blunt tipped and we went on.  Once we got to our gate, we had to go through security again.  That portion of the terminal is run by the U.S.  They found a pair of scissors Connie forgot to put in her checked bag.  She handed them over and we were set.

There were several other teams from different churches and organizations waiting for the same flight at the airport.  We were chatting with a retired couple traveling with a group out of Florida.  They had retired near Sarasota.  Dee asked them where they lived before they retired and they were from Evansville.  Small world.

We easily cleared immigration and customs in Miami.

We are finally cleared for take off.  Homeward bound!

Friday, April 5, 2013

Haiti Day 9

Day 9
March 22, 2013

We were up early, but there were no complaints.  I thought it was bittersweet to leave.  I was actually surprised by how sad leaving made me.  We had all formed relationships with the locals.  Our guard, Lamar, was a sweet man.  He would try to teach us Creole and at the same time he was learning English.  He came to the dock in the dark to see us off.  Angie taught us how to say, "See you later" in Creole, so I surprised him with Creole he didn't teach us.  Na We Pe Ta

When we first arrived in Source a Phillipe, I was shocked to see the hand made wooden plank we had to use to get off the boat.  This morning when I saw the plank, I had this overwhelming need to conquer it.  I've had so many experiences this week.  I've seen God move and I've felt His peace covering me.  I've seen Him put people in the path of a little girl.  I've seen His love spoken without words.  My "ah-ha moment" was not just realizing I can do hard things, but deciding from now on, I WILL do hard things.  When God calls us to do something, it doesn't mean it will be easy or within our comfort zone.  However, He will give us the strength, wisdom and courage to handle it.  He doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.

I charged up that plank and didn't take a hand until I was stepping on the boat.  The small victories.


The ride back to Petit Goave was slightly overcast, but we did eventually see the sun peek through the clouds.





Lunch is not served at the guest house in Petionville, but Bill was prepared.



Sarah sat with us for lunch and let us debrief.  She said they usually wait until the evening, but we were so excited to share. 

Members of the Rutgers football are at the guest house tonight.  They were doing construction.  The room Dee, Connie and I are staying in tonight has a balcony.  The team was sitting under the balcony for their debrief and then devotion time with their coach.  We couldn't help but overhear their experiences.  After they debriefed with staff from the guest house and were alone as a team, their coach went around to each team member and told how he had seen them grow or a special quality he had noticed in each of them during their time in Haiti.  I thought that was a wonderful way to encourage these young men.

There are some local men who sell things in the alley behind the guest house.  Sarah walked us out and they scrambled to unload their bags and set up shop.  Trevor was looking for a doll to take back to his granddaughter.  He does several mission trips and cruises a year and always brings her back a doll.  The men didn't have a doll.  A driver for the guest house took Trevor out to find one.  While they were gone, the men came into the compound and had found a doll.  We had no idea they were going to look for one.  Sarah told them they had to let her know when they were going to do something like that.  I felt really bad and considered buying it for Hannah, but it really isn't something she would want.

Tomorrow we are heading home.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Haiti Day 8

Day 8
March 21, 2013

How do you get two women to jump out of bed?  You put a burro outside the door of the guest house.  The women will jump out of bed and scramble for cameras only to find that the burro was passing by or the sound travels.  This may or not have happened to Dee and me.

Today was the last day at the clinic.  We saw a total of 278 people this week.  Thankfully, no one was critically ill.  Rodney feels like he has a better grasp of the common ailments and medicines needed.  Most of the children he saw had a cough.  It is most likely environmental.  The kids breathe the smoke from the charcoal and the charcoal is often used in cooking fires inside their homes.  One woman came in with an extremely high blood pressure.  She had a friend die last week who was taking medication for high blood pressure.  The woman who came in thought the blood pressure medicine caused her friend's death, so she quit taking hers.

We didn't do a formal VBS today, but we went down to the shelter and played with the children.  We brought soccer balls and frisbees.  They were both a big hit.  We collected them when we were finished and they will stay with the local pastors as community property.

We went to the school this morning.  The children were taking exams, so I didn't want to intrude too much. 








This is the principal's house.  It is next door to our guest house and the back of the school is in front of our building.

As we walked out of the school, I noticed the number of school aged children who weren't in school.  Their parents can't afford to send them.  That took me a while to process.  I will be praying that the Lord will show me how to help in this area or that He will send someone who can.  There is a vicious cycle of poverty here.  The children need to learn basic reading and writing skills.

We walked up behind the kitchen and took pictures of the big cacti. 



 
Then we took a path that loops around the back of the village.  There is a well surrounded by thick black mud and a little brackish water.  This is where the livestock are watered.


 

 

After our hike, we hired Captain Jackson for another short boat ride to swim.  This is another opportunity to encourage the locals to work and use their marketable skills. 
 
This boat was smaller than the last.  If this pattern continues, we will be paddling back to Petit Goave in a canoe tomorrow.
 
 
This boat didn't have a motor.  It worked on manpower alone.
 
 
The boat was so small we had to make two trips to get everyone out in the water.  We unloaded and went back to shore for the rest.  We did the entire thing in reverse at the end.
 

Dinner was some type of pasta salad with lobster meat, rice and beans, fried sweet potatoes, french fries, green beans and mangos.  Yummy (except the lobster part).

We have to head down to the dock at 3:30 in the morning for our 4:00 a.m. departure time.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Haiti Day 7

Day 7
March 20, 2013

We started the morning with a breakfast of mango, boiled eggs and spaghetti.  I skipped the spaghetti.

The clinic was slower today than most days.  That is a good thing.  It means we have seen most of the people who have a need.  Weslyn having the clinic open when there is not a team here helps with the minor ailments.

Weslyn and her sister joined us for lunch.  We had pancakes and orange slices.

Bill's sister donated Oreos for us to bring for the kids.  We gave those out after VBS.

Dinner was fish with the heads included (skipped that), Haitian potato salad, fried plantains and fried sweet potatoes and of course beans and rice.

After dinner we sat out in front of our building to watch the sunset.  Some kids started calling "Blanc, blanc!"  The word means, "white."   When I looked over, they yelled, "Alleluia" and waved their little arms in the air because we had done that at VBS.  I called and waved back.  This went on for about thirty minutes.  Each time they called to me they had gradually moved closer.  I thought they were just too shy to come over to us. 

When I was taking pictures of the sunset, they were right next to us.  I asked if I could take their picture.  They were all SMILES!  They knew the word, "photo" and would have gone on all night having their picture taken and giggling when seeing it on my camera.


Their clothing was not as nice as the clothing of the kids who were often around the guest house.  One little girl wore a pink dress which I think was just a mans shirt.


Those eyes and that smile
 



Look at this little one striking a pose...obviously not her first photo shoot
 




Fish faces

 

Love is kind - Lanmou janti
 
Dee had taught them to say, "Love is kind" and do motions to the words at VBS.  They were showing me. 

One of the older girls who hangs out around the guest house came over to the three kids.  She spoke Creole, so I can't be sure what she said, but a lot is communicated through tone and body language.  I realized they weren't being shy when they didn't come over to me sooner.  The kids were on the wrong side of the village.  They smiled at me and quickly retreated back to where they started.  I wish one of the interpreters had been nearby.  I wanted to know exactly what the older girl had said and to use my words to let these three sweet babies know how much they are loved.

Again, actions speak louder than words.  Once they were back to "their side" they called out, "Blanc! Blanc!  Lanmou janti!  Alleluia!"  Love is kind.  God's love does not need interpretation.  It is the same in any language.  Alleluia!